These are the cards that form the micro-pattern card library. They are free for people who have provided their email.
Seeing where situations are heading before they arrive Builds: Strategic ThinkingTrains: Systems Thinking, Analytical Thinking What this feels like when it’s working You can see patterns emerging and anticipate where situations are likely headed. You read signals others miss and prepare before issues become crises. Use this when You’re reacting to situations as they happen…
Knowing what you’re building toward and why it matters Builds: Strategic ThinkingTrains: Situational Awareness, Metacognition What this feels like when it’s working You know where you’re heading and why it matters. Daily choices connect to larger direction. You can articulate your strategic focus without needing to consult anything. Use this when You’re executing tasks without…
Showing up as yourself instead of performing safety Builds: ConnectionTrains: Resilience, Metacognition What this feels like when it’s working You can be yourself in relationships without constant performance or adjustment. You show up genuinely instead of calculating how to appear. Authenticity feels natural, not risky. Use this when You’re monitoring and adjusting yourself constantly to…
Addressing friction early instead of avoiding until crisis Builds: ConnectionTrains: Resilience, Situational Awareness What this feels like when it’s working You can name friction when it’s still small and workable. Conflict feels like useful information about misalignment, not catastrophe. You address issues before they become crises. Use this when You notice friction but you’re waiting,…
Saying no without lengthy justification Builds: ConnectionTrains: Cognitive Flexibility, Resilience What this feels like when it’s working You can decline requests simply and clearly. Your no feels complete without requiring elaborate explanation or apology. Boundaries feel like information, not rejection. Use this when You’re saying no but building a case to justify it. You feel…
Tracking your own needs while attending to others’ Builds: ConnectionTrains: Metacognition, Situational Awareness What this feels like when it’s working You can stay tuned to yourself while fully listening to others. You track both what they need and what you need without losing either perspective. Use this when You’re so focused on others’ needs that…
Staying present when conversation feels uncomfortable Builds: Relational ClarityTrains: Resilience, Metacognition What this feels like when it’s working You can stay present in difficult conversations without shutting down, over-explaining, or rushing to resolve the discomfort. Tension feels like normal friction, not threat. Use this when A conversation feels uncomfortable and you notice the urge to…
Stating needs or feedback clearly and briefly Builds: ConnectionTrains: Situational Awareness, Cognitive Flexibility What this feels like when it’s working You can state what you need or think clearly and briefly. Your communication feels clean – direct without being aggressive, clear without excessive softening. Use this when You’re building elaborate explanations when a simple statement…
Noticing depletion signals before collapse Builds: Sustainable WorkTrains: Metacognition, Situational Awareness What this feels like when it’s working You recognise early energy signals and respond before reaching depletion. You can read your system’s capacity in real time and adjust accordingly. Use this when You’re missing early fatigue signals and continuing until collapse. You’re only noticing…
Starting again from where you are, not from zero Builds: Sustainable WorkTrains: Resilience, Metalearning What this feels like when it’s working You can return to practices after interruption without starting over or waiting for perfect conditions. Gaps feel normal, not like failure requiring complete restart. Use this when You’ve dropped a practice and feel like…
